Twenties.. One should save everyday of life in these years rather than teenage or before.
Everyone say childhood is golden age and what we had in our life until becoming adult are sweet memories since we can’t live again our life.. One cannot re-live that moment again.. You can’t go to school in that short uniforms (though you feel kinky to try with your love, that’s another scene) but you can’t experience the fear, the thrill on the first day of college or going to class without homework.
However, I’d like to say about the TWENTIES LIFE. No one these days care about their life literally at this point of time since either they’re busy in passing degrees, dumping/swimming in love, obeying/nodding to parents decisions..
Let me share three things top most now otherwise I’ll forget them in the flow.
1. Nothing is eternal. Your Accomplishments, Love, Memories only. Neither your parents nor your time or deeds.
2. Try to learn as many Art forms/hobbies as you can. It doesn’t matter if they are non professional courses or studies. NEVER WASTE TIME.
3. Don’t crave for falling in love or girl. Either way you’ll get one from your parents side at some age or you’ll only get if the time comes. Teenage has all those oxytocin rushes and those memories are enough.
*** Fall in love when the time comes, cos it explore the dreams, show your responsibilities and a bigger perception of life.
0-15 years : These days life starts at 3 with education bags and partially ends up at 15 on a special note – ” This is crucial, once you clear this life will be easy then”. All these years what they teach you are the basics, remember you won’t live life here. Only life occupies your lifetime and you are the reactant for the environmental, biological changes in and outside your body.
16-21 years : Young blood, adrenaline rushes, hormonal changes. Unstable mind, passions that change. Girls, Video games, Gadgets, Mixed feelings and above CONFUSION. These five years completes with these acts and what you left with are the lust, love, loads of dreams and desires to live the life at a laaaargeeee size.
22 years : Here starts the “real life”. One will be completely out of education, one may be aiming for higher studies, one starts thinking about their life and so on. But there is a scenario where you shouldn’t anymore longer crave for girl, love, lust, money, fame, prestige etc. There is something out of that box which gives you Life.
Our elders or seniors are so smart that they suggest out of their experiences they have learnt to work hard and our life will be fruitful. The same people also say “they are intelligent, that’s why they’ve done smart work”. Smart work is the new motto.
Don’t ever assume something. Scared of something. Life is short to live, simplest at living when there is no expectations. If you’re good at your best things, your lines will be quotes otherwise no one cares them. It doesn’t matter when you don’t expect others to care your words.
It’s your life dear, your only life and there are no rules to live it to drive you – This is the only way or yoi shouldn’t go there.
Ofcourse they’re few bad acts which we shouldn’t adopt. At the age of 21, we all become enough matured to know what’s good and what’s evil.
Try not to get stressed out with others words. Do what you love, try what you can (think about your family also, they need you. Sometimes your love..!!)
Try not to roam for a beautiful girl. If they’re meant for you, they’ll. You may say when you don’t put effort how they’ll come to us.? Dude! Show the same passion in something other than the other girl. She’s also a human being and a girl, she’ll also have the same feelings after all the universe is running on the same gender basis.
Don’t depress if you are dumped. If they left. If they don’t find. Hold the pain and see the world, you’ll see a mighty life than before.
And never ever get used to afraid of anything. If it’s risky, let it go.. Try another, there is no such rule that you must opt this otherwise you can’t survive.
Life is too short to live. Remember, the more you explore..the more you achieve.
If someone says, you are bad here and you realise it, seek some other aspect. No one is useless. Even a sober can get into world records these days with his innumerable times of drinking 😋
One thing, whatever you do..that should be comes to a hault before 30’s. Then there’ll be a family and you’ll be in your father/mother role and with the marriage scenario the whole life which you can’t live again changes. Your place will be occupied by your son and you are supposed to be in your dad’s/mom’s place where you can never be a younger soul.
I know marriages are really amazing events. One will wait for that moment. Yes when you’re in love, you crave for that but once you got tied.. you know the rest. Be prepared to that. If you are really looking forward for that and pretty confident, that’s great.!! Cheers from my side.
Build dreams, learn new interests, seek alternative jobs, fulfill bucket lists, create your identity, try for secured life, take risks, step out of comfort zone. Be You, Seize every day and live your life literally.
Wake up at 6, enjoy the sunshine mornings, capture the moments, write it into a journal, make a wall poster collage, jog and meet new friends, shout over those who cut trees, have breakfast, hit gym, see your muscles, flaunt before friends, get a job or give as many trials as you can, learn something new, create a hobby, have great diet, try to develop your own boutique/startup, shop like anything, sell if not using, participate in all events, go for parties, dance in the snowy nights, experience the craziness side, meet new people, rate the apps, review movies/books/music, bundle up your old books, belongings, decorate them to showcase for your love/friends/ anyone, gift your loved ones, crack mad jokes, take long road trips, go for long drives, surprise everyone, “give a try” to anything except drugs etc..
“LET’S WELCOME LIFE”