Statutory warning: PLEASE DON’T READ ANY MORE FURTHER IF YOU THINK YOU ARE A KIDDO..
We people grew so fast. We don’t care about life until our teenage. Later, we start feeling something called love, joy, life and ofcourse sexual attraction (bloddy hormones). And then in achieving that love of a girl/guy, we tend to lose our lifetime these days. Are we the one who had love failures? Failing in love due to inter religious issues or castes? How our elders crossed it? Are they still loving one and living artificially? Okay this is going into another track.
How many of you really don’t feel awkward to speak about periods (no more a girl thing to speak). If she’s the one who is going to gift you your love, adorable daughter, she is also the one who is fighting every month with nature.
Our mighty brilliant government started sex awareness and sex education in order to avoid spoiling of young generation. To be honest, how far it is really fair enough in creating awareness? Have you ever thought how it’d be for a kid to hear about private organs like that in a classroom or public. To those kids who are supposed to play and learn, sex education is must?? If so who should teach them? In which way? How a girl looks like or boy looks like or how sex will be done? Or
How a girl should be respected for her metabolism or how to understand the biology of human nature. At what standard in education level, does this awareness is needed?
If the public is facilitated with free condoms out in public to ease their sexual intercourse and creating awareness in schools who is going to educated? Who will understand any women’s biological reactions? Who is interpreting a gurl or woman as a sexual diva? Aren’t we responsible?
Here is a scenario: I’m going to keep details confidential but I need an answer.
If a guy visits a super market and asks whisper. Why those shocking reactions from everyone around. Those yuck looks from other men and jaw dropping reaction from women. Anyway he isn’t supposed to use the pads right!! He shouldn’t ask them? What makes hin not to yell that out? Maybe those whisper pads are for her girl, bhabhi or someone who isn’t in a position to walk for that damn menstrual cycle and he is caring out. What’s wrong in that? How narrow minded our society is? How much awareness in which direction and to whon it should be given? Even the billing guy or girl looks stunned to watch him holding them.. Such a creepy mindset people
What government should create awareness? Oh yeah, thy should waste our quality fun time with smoking hazards by playing 15mins clips in movies besides encouraging to sell those cigars out in public or alcohol since without those items, their revenue falls. Diplomatic society and government right!! Every one needs the power to enjoy and to sustain that they speak no to caste, creed, alcohol etc but in actions they can’t be seen.
When they can express that sexual awareness is needed to reduce AIDS and misconception about sexual intercourse. Why don’t they create awareness about unwilling feeling of a girl to get touched by a guy? Why don’t they create awareness about a girl’s biological reactions in public? Oh sry, it should be private and is a sin to dispose or they only not aware off? If it is kept private who will understand and respect them in that moment.
Do you really know how it would be for a girl to face them. Infact these days few girls are posting how it would be in those days through few examples like twisting the plastic tube or something but it isn’t enough. Just imagine if one cannot sit or stand with a constant pain and bleeding.. Damn if one get a slight bleed, people faints and scare, sic right?
Thanks to those who understand the pain of women and availing leaves in their companies. Yes there are two companies : Culture machine and Gozoop, they really understood what they should give for a women. It doesn’t matter whether they’re offering paid leaves or free leaves when no leaves are available for someone who is working in a hectic schedule balancing the work life and personal life.
What’s more something sad is even most if the women won’t come forward to speak about this and they prefer to sit out in those days with no idea why they’re sitting our from generations. Fortunately, most girls these days feel proud to be a women, understand this scenario and living in accepting the scenario of people with mindset who care them.
Periods or menstrual cycle isn’t a sin or unfaithful act. To a women who is supposed to give birth or turned a women, her body is supposed to clean up regularly so that few organs in her body could function perfectly. And in some regions elders paved a way/habit to sit women out in such a way they’ll get some rest and since they bleeds and at that time they are not having so many facilities as of now, they prefer to let them live outside but not such as “untouchability”.
It’s our creepy mindsets who take it that way. You may not share this or treat your mom or aunt but you can definitely love your baby girl. Take care of her and remember it isn’t a murder or any crime to buy whisper/stayfree or anything in public and no need of feeling ashamed.
It’s your love and feel proud you’re loving your loved one at their weak time.