Make way for L I F E..

Have you ever given a thought on how anyone’s life should be? or how we all are living. When you watch a movie of Raj kumar hirani’s – 3 idiots, one might feel hilarious about the racing lives but in real what we are doing.

This is a random thought that has been kicking inside myself from long time.

All I can see and learnt is to struggle.

— struggle for the existence.

— struggle for the financial freedom.

— struggle for the peaceful future of our next generation.

To be honest, do they acquire this? How do they attain when they don’t have the core compound.. Nature

These days being born as a normal human being is enough lucky since the struggle itself starts from the womb against the diseases we created in pursuing the “unknown hidden discoveries”.

Whom should we ask, who are answerable for these questions.

  • IF WE STRUGGLE FOR FINANCIAL FREEDOM TILL THE END/MID THIRTIES OR FORTIES – WHEN WILL WE LIVE?
  • WHO CAN ASSURE THAT OUR RESOURCES WILL BE UTILISED BY OUR SUCCESSORS?
  • WHEN WE GOT ENOUGH NATURAL RESOURCES, WHAT WE ARE STRIVING FOR?
  • WELL, IF WE WANT TO KNOW THE SECRET BEHIND OUR LIVES.. WHAT MOST OF US ARE DOING/LIVING UP WITH?
  • WHEN THE POLITICIANS/BUSINESSMAN ARE STRIVING HARD FOR THEIR GOALS/YEARLY GROWTH — WHAT IT GIVES TO THEM? WHAT THEIR SUCCESSORS WILL GET AND WHAT THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO CARRY FORWARD.. STRUGGLING THROUGH THE MARKET AND ACHIEVING HIGHER AMOUNT OF MONEY TO BUY/LIVE WITH WHATTT?
  • NO PERSON FROM THE PRESIDENT TO THE PAUPER THINK ABOUT THIS NOW..

‘Cos we all are running in the race and meant to be otherwise we end up being prey to the current lifestyle. But give a moment and think, how truly this is necessary.

How can we justify our birth? How can we get a meaning for our lifetime? Does making money only the lifetime achievement.

In the current lifestyle, no common man can own a house until he reaches forty. Or may be if he is techie he may own a house of his dreams at 25/26 but he’ll be subjected to clear the EMI’s until his 50’s. Who’s guarantee on him that he’ll live until then or the job he had? So, honestly there is no chance of having the essential basic commodity of living. Then why we are living?

Living in the illusion of

— Making our dreams come true on someday

— Build that castle/dream home to live with our loved ones luxuriously

— Own that Mall/Live king-size life

How commonly one can make them true? Yes, it may be possible to roll the stones but out of how many one can make it?

Remember, something we all are busy with our deeds and making our deeds much worse. Often these days, nature is showing her nature. If we don’t realise now, true nature of nature will be revealed and then no Stephen Hawking can take us to another planet for polluting it.

When you’re not aware of how you born, who gave you the right to cut the cord on your own.

 

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Turn Around Twenties (TAT)

Twenties.. One should save everyday of life in these years rather than teenage or before.

Everyone say childhood is golden age and what we had in our life until becoming adult are sweet memories since we can’t live again our life.. One cannot re-live that moment again.. You can’t go to school in that short uniforms (though you feel kinky to try with your love, that’s another scene) but you can’t experience the fear, the thrill on the first day of college or going to class without homework.

However, I’d like to say about the TWENTIES LIFE. No one these days care about their life literally at this point of time since either they’re busy in passing degrees, dumping/swimming in love, obeying/nodding to parents decisions..

Let me share three things top most now otherwise I’ll forget them in the flow.

1. Nothing is eternal. Your Accomplishments, Love, Memories only. Neither your parents nor your time or deeds.

2. Try to learn as many Art forms/hobbies as you can. It doesn’t matter if they are non professional courses or studies. NEVER WASTE TIME.

3. Don’t crave for falling in love or girl. Either way you’ll get one from your parents side at some age or you’ll only get if the time comes. Teenage has all those oxytocin rushes and those memories are enough.

*** Fall in love when the time comes, cos it explore the dreams, show your responsibilities and a bigger perception of life.

0-15 years : These days life starts at 3 with education bags and partially ends up at 15 on a special note – ” This is crucial, once you clear this life will be easy then”. All these years what they teach you are the basics, remember you won’t live life here. Only life occupies your lifetime and you are the reactant for the environmental, biological changes in and outside your body.

16-21 years : Young blood, adrenaline rushes, hormonal changes. Unstable mind, passions that change. Girls, Video games, Gadgets, Mixed feelings and above CONFUSION. These five years completes with these acts and what you left with are the lust, love, loads of dreams and desires to live the life at a laaaargeeee size.

22 years : Here starts the “real life”. One will be completely out of education, one may be aiming for higher studies, one starts thinking about their life and so on. But there is a scenario where you shouldn’t anymore longer crave for girl, love, lust, money, fame, prestige etc. There is something out of that box which gives you Life.

Our elders or seniors are so smart that they suggest out of their experiences they have learnt to work hard and our life will be fruitful. The same people also say “they are intelligent, that’s why they’ve done smart work”. Smart work is the new motto.

Don’t ever assume something. Scared of something. Life is short to live, simplest at living when there is no expectations. If you’re good at your best things, your lines will be quotes otherwise no one cares them. It doesn’t matter when you don’t expect others to care your words. 

It’s your life dear, your only life and there are no rules to live it to drive you – This is the only way or yoi shouldn’t go there.

Ofcourse they’re few bad acts which we shouldn’t adopt. At the age of 21, we all become enough matured to know what’s good and what’s evil.

Try not to get stressed out with others words. Do what you love, try what you can (think about your family also, they need you. Sometimes your love..!!)

Try not to roam for a beautiful girl. If they’re meant for you, they’ll. You may say when you don’t put effort how they’ll come to us.? Dude! Show the same passion in something other than the other girl. She’s also a human being and a girl, she’ll also have the same feelings after all the universe is running on the same gender basis.

Don’t depress if you are dumped. If they left. If they don’t find. Hold the pain and see the world, you’ll see a mighty life than before.

And never ever get used to afraid of anything. If it’s risky, let it go.. Try another, there is no such rule that you must opt this otherwise you can’t survive.

Life is too short to live. Remember, the more you explore..the more you achieve.

If someone says, you are bad here and you realise it, seek some other aspect. No one is useless. Even a sober can get into world records these days with his innumerable times of drinking 😋

One thing, whatever you do..that should be comes to a hault before 30’s. Then there’ll be a family and you’ll be in your father/mother role and with the marriage scenario the whole life which you can’t live again changes. Your place will be occupied by your son and you are supposed to be in your dad’s/mom’s place where you can never be a younger soul. 

I know marriages are really amazing events. One will wait for that moment. Yes when you’re in love, you crave for that but once you got tied.. you know the rest. Be prepared to that. If you are really looking forward for that and pretty confident, that’s great.!! Cheers from my side.

Build dreams, learn new interests, seek alternative jobs, fulfill bucket lists, create your identity, try for secured life, take risks, step out of comfort zone. Be You, Seize every day and live your life literally.
Wake up at 6, enjoy the sunshine mornings, capture the moments, write it into a journal, make a wall poster collage, jog and meet new friends, shout over those who cut trees, have breakfast, hit gym, see your muscles, flaunt before friends, get a job or give as many trials as you can, learn something new, create a hobby, have great diet, try to develop your own boutique/startup, shop like anything, sell if not using, participate in all events, go for parties, dance in the snowy nights, experience the craziness side, meet new people, rate the apps, review movies/books/music, bundle up your old books, belongings, decorate them to showcase for your love/friends/ anyone, gift your loved ones, crack mad jokes, take long road trips, go for long drives, surprise everyone, “give a try” to anything except drugs etc.. 

“LET’S WELCOME LIFE”

Whisper..? Nah!! Say loud and stay bold

Statutory warning: PLEASE DON’T READ ANY MORE FURTHER IF YOU THINK YOU ARE A KIDDO..

We people grew so fast. We don’t care about life until our teenage. Later, we start feeling something called love, joy, life and ofcourse sexual attraction (bloddy hormones). And then in achieving that love of a girl/guy, we tend to lose our lifetime these days. Are we the one who had love failures? Failing in love due to inter religious issues or castes? How our elders crossed it? Are they still loving one and living artificially? Okay this is going into another track.

How many of you really don’t feel awkward to speak about periods (no more a girl thing to speak). If she’s the one who is going to gift you your love, adorable daughter, she is also the one who is fighting every month with nature.

Our mighty brilliant government started sex awareness and sex education in order to avoid spoiling of young generation. To be honest, how far it is really fair enough in creating awareness? Have you ever thought how it’d be for a kid to hear about private organs like that in a classroom or public. To those kids who are supposed to play and learn, sex education is must?? If so who should teach them? In which way? How a girl looks like or boy looks like or how sex will be done? Or

How a girl should be respected for her metabolism or how to understand the biology of human nature. At what standard in education level, does this awareness is needed? 

If the public is facilitated with free condoms out in public to ease their sexual intercourse and creating awareness in schools who is going to educated? Who will understand any women’s biological reactions? Who is interpreting a gurl or woman as a sexual diva? Aren’t we responsible?

Here is a scenario: I’m going to keep details confidential but I need an answer. 

If a guy visits a super market and asks whisper. Why those shocking reactions from everyone around. Those yuck looks from other men and jaw dropping reaction from women. Anyway he isn’t supposed to use the pads right!! He shouldn’t ask them? What makes hin not to yell that out? Maybe those whisper pads are for her girl, bhabhi or someone who isn’t in a position to walk for that damn menstrual cycle and he is caring out. What’s wrong in that? How narrow minded our society is? How much awareness in which direction and to whon it should be given? Even the billing guy or girl looks stunned to watch him holding them.. Such a creepy mindset people

What government should create awareness? Oh yeah, thy should waste our quality fun time with smoking hazards by playing 15mins clips in movies besides encouraging to sell those cigars out in public or alcohol since without those items, their revenue falls. Diplomatic society and government right!! Every one needs the power to enjoy and to sustain that they speak no to caste, creed, alcohol etc but in actions they can’t be seen.

When they can express that sexual awareness is needed to reduce AIDS and misconception about sexual intercourse. Why don’t they create awareness about unwilling feeling of a girl to get touched by a guy? Why don’t they create awareness about a girl’s biological reactions in public? Oh sry, it should be private and is a sin to dispose or they only not aware off? If it is kept private who will understand and respect them in that moment.

Do you really know how it would be for a girl to face them. Infact these days few girls are posting how it would be in those days through few examples like twisting the plastic tube or something but it isn’t enough. Just imagine if one cannot sit or stand with a constant pain and bleeding.. Damn if one get a slight bleed, people faints and scare, sic right?

Thanks to those who understand the pain of women and availing leaves in their companies. Yes there are two companies : Culture machine and  Gozoop, they really understood what they should give for a women. It doesn’t matter whether they’re offering paid leaves or free leaves when no leaves are available for someone who is working in a hectic schedule balancing the work life and personal life.

What’s more something sad is even most if the women won’t come forward to speak about this and they prefer to sit out in those days with no idea why they’re sitting our from generations. Fortunately, most girls these days feel proud to be a women, understand this scenario and living in accepting the scenario of people with mindset who care them.

Periods or menstrual cycle isn’t a sin or unfaithful act. To a women who is supposed to give birth or turned a women, her body is supposed to clean up regularly so that few organs in her body could function perfectly. And in some regions elders paved a way/habit to sit women out in such a way they’ll get some rest and since they bleeds and at that time they are not having so many facilities as of now, they prefer to let them live outside but not such as “untouchability”. 

It’s our creepy mindsets who take it that way. You may not share this or treat your mom or aunt but you can definitely love your baby girl. Take care of her and remember it isn’t a murder or any crime to buy whisper/stayfree or anything in public and no need of feeling ashamed. 

It’s your love and feel proud you’re loving your loved one at their weak time.